Sugar Daddy Dating Site Will Help You Find Your Sugar Babe

A great deal of wealthy men who have worked hard to get to where they are today find themselves with little time for a relationship. Due to the fact that many of these successful gentlemen are also very private people, a majority of them have turned to the Internet to find their very own sugar baby.

There are many online dating sites available to us but if you’re a wealthy man your focus should be on joining a website that caters specifically to successful and affluent males. It is on such a site that you will find an abundance of beautiful women better known as sugar babies who are looking for successful men such as yourself.

What makes Internet dating sites the ideal choice for wealthy men who have busy schedules is that these sites are extremely convenient and much less time consuming than visiting the singles bars. Not having enough free time to date is probably one of the biggest reasons most affluent wealthy men find themselves not in relationships but this can be easily be remedied by joining a dating site.

Privacy is also another concern for males who have acquired a great deal of wealth which is why you most likely will not spot them in a singles bar searching for a sugar baby. Many affluent gentlemen would prefer to be more discreet which would make seeking a relationship over the Internet a suitable option for them.

Beautiful women are drawn towards wealthy dating sites because of the quality of men they can expect to find on there. The logic behind this is that if a man has the ability to go out into the world and become a success, chances are they are also educated, well spoken and goal driven individuals which are character traits many women seek in a man. It is for this reason a dating site such as sugardaddie.com would be the ideal place to find a sugar baby.

As you can see, online dating sites have changed the way men and women go about meeting each other. Whether you’re a man who would like to find a sugar baby or a woman looking to meet a quality man, the time is now to start enjoying your life but it’s up to you to take that first step.

There is a common misconception that all a sugar baby needs to be is extremely attractive. While although there is some element of truth in this statement, beauty is said to be in the eyes of the beholder and each Sugardaddy may have his own perception of what his sugar baby should be. It is however, imperative for the sugar baby to be able to fit into a multitude of situations which may very well include a black tie affair and mingling or meeting people with other members of her benefactor’s social circle. It is for this reason that the sugar baby not only be reasonably educated but well versed in a variety of topics and current events. Single women that are all looks and little substance would be doing her sugar daddy a disservice and can actually hurt her chances to move up the social ladder.

Another common misconception is that a sugar baby is looking for a slightly older gentleman who has acquired a significant amount of experience and wealth in his life and is now in a position to assist a sugar baby meet people that are influential in her quest for a more affluent lifestyle. Much younger men are now achieving such success but have little time to seek out a long term relationship; therefore the sugar baby arrangement can be a mutually beneficial association.

The world wide web has now made the connection process easier for both the sugar baby and the wealthy man as the incredible growth of online dating sites especially sugardaddie.com has sped up the ‘getting-to-know-you’ process and put these individuals in a position to jumpstart their relationship.

The Sugardaddy Relationship phenomenon

The Sugar Daddy dating-relationship phenomenon has been exploding across the internet for the past few years and shows no signs of slowing down. Wealthy men and exceptionally attractive young ladies have become captivated with the notion of the Sugar daddy experience. Beautiful women are abundant as can be, as demonstrated by viewing television shows or glamour magazines. The beaches of Miami and Malibu are flooded with attractive and fit, single women who would jump at the opportunity to enter into a relationship, especially if those men could provide a better than average lifestyle for them. These affluent men are more than willing to assist these ladies in their quest for material comfort in return for companionship and entertainment.

Some might argue the point that these liaisons between the wealthy men and the beautiful younger women are nothing more illicit affairs. That the sugar daddy is taking advantage of the young woman by tempting her with exotic vacations, exquisite cuisine and fine gifts, but nothing can be further from the truth. This entire relationship must be a mutually beneficial one that is based on respect and understanding. There is a misconception that all sugar daddy relationships are between a well-to-do middle aged sugar daddy and extraordinary beautiful girl, this is not true. Many of these relationships begin as friendships between older wealthy men and average looking women who may need just a little help or a mentor in order to attain the standard of living that they desire in life.

It is very common for an older sugar daddy type to establish himself as father figure to young girls in need of an education into the ways of the world. Quite often these girls may have come from broken homes or from relationships in which they may have been mentally abused by someone closer to their own age. Young girls are often preyed upon by younger sugar daddy impersonators, who may not have the means to support themselves, let alone provide for their significant other in a relationship. This ‘bad boy’ sugar daddy copycat often leaves a young lady with a bitter taste towards any future relationships, and a kindly more secure older gentleman might be just the catalyst needed to propel this battered duckling into a beautiful swan.

Oh Mama

I’m not sure as to whether or not this is a genetic trait that all women possess, or merely something that occurs in the single women that I tend to meet, but I have noticed that they all seem to want to mother me. Originally I had thought that because of my extreme adventure lifestyle, and the fact that I usually came home broken or battered in some fashion that it was just a nice gesture of concern. Nope, its more than that. It seems that even if I just get a splinter or a scratch, the woman I am with will roll out the bandages, put me in my recliner, hand me the remote control and repeatedly kiss my boo boo.

This mothering instinct is a fine thing, but it can sometimes get overdone. If I mention I am inured, even a woman who has never met me face to face feels the need to nurse me back to health, by sending me home remedies or calling a local deli and having chicken soup sent to my residence. I should take the time to mention that I live within a guard gated estate, so my security is assured. I am not the handsomest man in the world, so I am not concerned that they do this out of pure lust, nor am I the ugliest, as I have not recently been seen ringing bell in a church shouting “sanctuary” at the top of my lungs. It just seems that it is genetically coded for the female of the species to do this. I have learned, however that I can work this human condition to my advantage. My Sugar baby is coming over to night and, I’m trying my best to get a groin injury before she arrives.

Keep it private from your sugar babe

So many times I hear about Sugardaddies who have divulged an incredible amount of both personal and financial information to those women that they are dating. I sometimes wonder what the hell they were thinking. Of course in most relationships, bits and pieces of your previous personal life and fiscal information will find their way into a conversation, and will invariably lodge inside the greedy little brain of your Sugar babe. Understand, that if you are dating a Sugar babe this goes with the territory. After all, this young lady is with you for many reasons, one of which is your ability to support her in a comfortable lifestyle. At some point when this arrangement is coming to an end, depending upon the tone of the break-up, she will either ask you for assistance during the transition, walk away to be with another, or as is frequently the case, blackmail you with veiled threats. This last ploy usually involves the Internal Revenue Service or a transsexual named Roxie whom you met during a drunken night in Jamaica, but that’s another story. The point is, there is no reason, unless this person has been with you for a very long time, and you do not see it ending anytime soon, to enlighten them to these aspects of your life. It cannot end well.

Face it, there are just some things that are best kept to yourself and especially those things that can come back to bite you in the tushy. I’m sure there are plenty of women that you have dated that wouldn’t even consider using information gathered over the course of a relationship as bargaining chips for some scandalous reason, but why take the chance? As a Sugar daddy it is your responsibility to ensure a better than average lifestyle for those under your care, and move them in a direction to better themselves. No where in the official Sugar babe adoption papers does it state that you have let their accountants have a look at your books, or subject yourself to psychological profiling. There is nothing holding the young woman to you other than her own need to live a more upscale existence, and unless she is closer to your age, and there is a deep and genuine relationship established, it is more than likely that she will be on her way when offered a bigger and better deal. In these very uncertain times, fortunes are won and lost, its ok for a Sugar babe to live beyond her means, as long as she doesn’t live beyond your means as well.

Exceptionally attractive women or reasonably plain

Has anyone aside from me noticed that there is a direct correlation between the perceived looks of a woman and how much aggravation that a Sugar babe seems to cause? You would normally think that the better looking a woman is, the more demanding she will be, and the more drama that will accompany her. This is simply not true. If we allow for those that are more than likely insane to begin with, and remove them from our consideration we will almost invariably find that it is the only slightly better than average looking women who cause the Sugardaddies of the world the most amount of grief. It is also for this reason that you will almost always find that the affluent Sugar daddy is accompanied by exceptionally attractive women or reasonably plain women. It has been said that the average woman would rather have beauty than brains, this is mostly because the average man can see better than he can think!

Beautiful women know that they are extremely attractive and as such, can pretty much call their own shots when it comes to choosing a wealthy older man to spend time with. They know that if they are not getting what they want from this relationship, the next one is more than likely only a few days away. The plain woman, understands that she needs to try a bit harder to maintain the relationship, and most likely has some exceptional skills and abilities that make her desirable despite her average appearance. These two classifications of women usually make the Sugar daddy very happy, and as such he has a wonderful existence and the state of the relationship is usually under his control.

The slightly better than average looking woman is someone that is considered pretty, but needs to work hard at it. She is the one who relies completely on expensive clothing, manicures and attitude to set herself apart from the hordes of moderately attractive single females. She can easily be picked out of a crowd, not because of her appearance, but because she will always be the one with the shrill voice screaming the words “I want” or “I need”. She is the one you have seen at a restaurant scolding the waiter for not bringing her a menu fast enough. Much of this attitude comes from a childhood of getting everything she wanted but grew up not deserving what she did receive. It is the gentlemen who represent themselves to be Sugardaddies, but are on the low end of the financial scale who will tolerate such women. A true Sugar daddy will dismiss this individual after the first date. Remember men, money cannot buy love, but it can rent a damn close imitation!

Cigarettes, Pizza and Sugar babes

In my younger days I was fortunate enough to be a local star athlete and not too shabby looking either. Because of my looks and my physique, I had some friends that were well known in entertainment industry. These gentlemen seemed to never be without a gorgeous woman on their side and on occasionally it was a well known film star. These were not Sugardaddies, but simply “womanizers”, however some of the lessons they taught me before ‘my ship came in” still apply today. My friend Gary, who was among the best looking of the group and was a featured dancer at “Chippendales” in New York City, told me that whenever you leave the house or are out in public, whether its to get a pack of cigarettes, a slice of pizza or anything else, the primary task is to meet attractive women, every thing else is secondary to this prime directive.

I’ve thought about this much in the past 20 years since I had last seen many of these people and although my love and respect for the fairer sex is still light years beyond that of the old womanizing crew, many of what they had said still holds true today. Think about it, no matter what your socio-economic status is, and no matter whether you look like George Clooney or Curious George, your radar is in perpetual targeting mode for pretty women. The average “Joe” may not have the same chance as the Pretty Boy or the millionaire but the objectives are still the same; seek out attractive women!

How many times have you watched a film or a television show and seen two of the stars meet in either a Laundromat or the frozen foods section of the local supermarket? Harry would never have met Sally if it weren’t for the need to get a ride to the city. We all think that most relationships begin in some swanky night club or restaurant, but the truth is that after the Internet, the majority of relationships begin as chance encounters during an average day. So next time you need to run out for that slice of pizza or a pack of cigarettes, you might think about a splash of cologne and combing your hair, because the woman of your dreams might be just ahead of you in line!

3 ways to lose a Sugar baby

I spend quite a lot of time telling everyone how wonderful it is to be a Sugar daddy and how to find and keep an attractive young woman, but what I rarely tell people is how to lose one. First let’s understand this; there is the intentional method of freeing yourself from a relationship and losing a girl due to your own misunderstanding of what it takes to be a Sugar daddy. Intentionally doing inappropriate things in an attempt to get a young lady to break up with you is wrong. Honesty is always the best policy and if a relationship is not working out, than be man enough to sit down and explain why it can’t go any further. Anybody can be a moron, even someone with substantial wealth, but a Sugardaddy is supposed to be a person who will lead you in a better direction, nobody ever claimed it would be with him, but you should at least be a man of class and respect.

Next, we can get on with the unintended reasons that will drive your Sugar baby away. Not taking care of your appearance is a primary method that will surely make a single woman think twice about being seen with you. If your weight and personal hygiene are not where they should be, you are showing a lack of respect for yourself and thereby an inability to care about your woman. You need to display that you are concerned about your appearance and hers as well. This is also a good method of seeing your woman naked; just place your scale in the bedroom as we all know that there is not a woman alive who will weigh themselves fully clothed!

Lastly, losing all your money will surely push a Sugar baby to find her ‘sugar’ elsewhere; after all, being a Sugar daddy is all about an upscale lifestyle. If you can’t provide her with that affluent standard of living, someone else probably can. Remember that old adage, “Men are like bank accounts, without a lot of money, they don’t generate much interest!

Sugar Daddy Relationship

Sometimes it amazes me how many of my friends who envy my Sugar daddy lifestyle seem to think that I just go out to a bar at night and pick up a young and energetic attractive woman and ‘poof’, I am now involved in a Sugar daddy relationship. These are also the same people who told me to buy all the real estate I could get, just two short years ago! To them I politely say, “so how’s that working out for ya!” When searching for a Sugar babe, you are actually looking for someone to spend time with, as much as we may hope, the entire world does not take place in a bedroom, ok…a lot of time yes, but not all the time. So, for this reason, you may want to find someone who is not only aesthetically pleasing, intelligent, but has some similar interests.

I love the ocean; I love everything about it, from surfing to scuba diving. For me, it is vitally important that I find an attractive young lady who enjoys this as well, especially since so much of my time is spent in aquatic pursuits. Now here’s the news flash, there are great single women who enjoy the same things I do! So, why should I spend my time searching the night spots, when I can find someone during one of my adventures, who I can relate to better? Being a Sugar daddy is not about sex, its about experiencing new and exciting things. If I meet a pretty, athletic girl along the beach in South Florida, think about the fun both of us can have on the beach during a weekend in Cancun!

Although a Sugar daddy relationship quite often suggests a financial arrangement with younger attractive ladies for the purpose of showing them a more affluent lifestyle, there is always the possibility that more a traditional relationship would be welcome well. Because this is always a possibility, I try to associate with single women that share common interests and may just need a bit of push or assistance in moving ahead in life. Depending on your mood, you may prefer the woman that you have little in common with, she would however not be a Sugar babe, she is known as a one night stand.

How I Found My Sugar Babe

There I was in the Congo…ok maybe not, but I got you to pause and think for a second. So many times I’m asked how I actually went about finding a Sugar babe, and I have to stop and think for a moment before I answer them. I’d like to say that it all took place on some remote tropical paradise, that I saw her from afar and then played a game of cat and mouse until I finally had her for myself, or that one day while I was cruising on my yacht, I spotted her floating on a raft far out to sea and rescued her from certain death. The truth of the matter is that most often I use my tried and true pick-up line, “hello”. There ya, go, the truth is out, my never fail ‘line du jour’ is merely saying hello and introducing myself. Not quite the suave and debonair manner which you would have expected me to have attractive young women fall at my feet, but the truth is, it works.

Now I must admit I have some other things going for me as well, such as my boyish charm and impish grin along with my dazzling green eyes. These combined with that incredible opening line we spoke of earlier are a great start, (although, they really don’t work as well in the online dating venues). The thing that brings all of this together is personality, anyone can walk up to someone and say hello but you have to sell the deal with a smile and some witty dialogue, otherwise you are just another one of the crowd of hapless men using the volume technique in hopes some single woman will at some point say yes. Your personality must shine from the first eye contact and show the confidence that resulted in you approaching her. There are many other methods that work in various situations, such as pulling up to your favorite night spot in a hundred thousand dollar car, or offering to fly her and her friend to Las Vegas for a weekend at the Palms in Las Vegas, but even with those tried and true methods, it still all comes right down to saying ‘hello’.