So many times I hear about Sugardaddies who have divulged an incredible amount of both personal and financial information to those women that they are dating. I sometimes wonder what the hell they were thinking. Of course in most relationships, bits and pieces of your previous personal life and fiscal information will find their way into a conversation, and will invariably lodge inside the greedy little brain of your Sugar babe. Understand, that if you are dating a Sugar babe this goes with the territory. After all, this young lady is with you for many reasons, one of which is your ability to support her in a comfortable lifestyle. At some point when this arrangement is coming to an end, depending upon the tone of the break-up, she will either ask you for assistance during the transition, walk away to be with another, or as is frequently the case, blackmail you with veiled threats. This last ploy usually involves the Internal Revenue Service or a transsexual named Roxie whom you met during a drunken night in Jamaica, but that’s another story. The point is, there is no reason, unless this person has been with you for a very long time, and you do not see it ending anytime soon, to enlighten them to these aspects of your life. It cannot end well.
Face it, there are just some things that are best kept to yourself and especially those things that can come back to bite you in the tushy. I’m sure there are plenty of women that you have dated that wouldn’t even consider using information gathered over the course of a relationship as bargaining chips for some scandalous reason, but why take the chance? As a Sugar daddy it is your responsibility to ensure a better than average lifestyle for those under your care, and move them in a direction to better themselves. No where in the official Sugar babe adoption papers does it state that you have let their accountants have a look at your books, or subject yourself to psychological profiling. There is nothing holding the young woman to you other than her own need to live a more upscale existence, and unless she is closer to your age, and there is a deep and genuine relationship established, it is more than likely that she will be on her way when offered a bigger and better deal. In these very uncertain times, fortunes are won and lost, its ok for a Sugar babe to live beyond her means, as long as she doesn’t live beyond your means as well.