Monthly Archives: September 2008

Is It Annoying To Be Pretty ?.

If God has been kind and graced a women with beauty why is it that some of them look so uncomfortable in their skin. Of course men stare at beauty and always will so why haven’t these women got used to. Come to that why have men not got used to the fact that plenty of these beautiful women are single because many men do not have the guts to approach them for fear of rejection..

If these women relaxed and the men grew a set of balls Im sure a lot more people would be dating with the possibility of taking it further.

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Return From Costa Rica.

Great weekend away. Still amazes me that some people in this world live in prety poor conditions. Im also suprised that as Latin American countries go Costa Rica is supposedly high on the food chain. I would dread to think what some of the lower end ones are like. The people there are great, views are fantastic, not sure about thir claim to be  eco friendly and green. Im sure they are trying to be green and promote it (great selling point) but I saw no evidence of it. Im also sure that poor countries cannot afford to go green.

 

Anyways yes the mountains are fantastic and I recommend Costa Rica foe a weekend date. Take a trip up the mountains or at least get out of the city. San Jose is really a busy smelly city that isnt that safe so I would stay out of there and get out to the country and see the rain forests.

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Divorce Rates.

Why is it that when a couple gets married in India the chances of them getting divorced is about 1%, yet 45% of new married couples in the USA get divorced. Why is this?. I suppose one factor to take into consideration is location, if you live in a desolate village where the majority of your life is working and looking after your family you are probably less likely to wonder. Firstly to be honest most of what I see on tv of India (as I have not been their) seems to consist of quite remote villages and lets be honest Ive never really noticed bars, clubs or restauarants in any of these villages which are probably one of the most common places used.

 

When I see the statistics of marriages failing compared to other countries or even compared to years ago I am not so alarmed as the world has changed we have way more distractions in life and lots more social venues. Ive also come to the conclusion that many people marry for the fear of being lonely which is not exactly the best remedy for a lasting relationship.

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Dream Date To Costa Rica

So I have met someone recently and have decided to take a short break/date to Costa Rica. I was their quite a few years ago so Im quite excited to see if there has been any transformation as the places I went to certainly needed a cash injection and some seriously new infrastructure.

Lots of places to see this time. Im intersted to see how San Hose is looking these days. Hopefully it has been cleaned up a bit as it did look a little on the dirty and slightly battered the last time I was their.All will be revealed in the next 24 hrs so I will put on a post when I return

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Cell Phone Gripe

So I have just read that train drivers in California are to be banned from using their cell phones. Whoever it was or collective group of people that decided on this could have probably come up with this ban quite a long time ago if they used my local supermarket. Half the time Iam either dodging someone who has made an abrupt move or Im stuck behind someone who basically just decides to stop as they need to finish the cell phone conversation.

The other day I actually noticed someone walk into the supermarket on the phone they disappeared into the crowd then a couple of minutes later i see this persom reappear looking for a basket. This proves to me how useless people become once on the phone they cannot do two jobs at once and it annoys the hell out of me.

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Say What You Mean And Mean What You Say

Ive always been fascinated but human traits when it comes to doing what you actually said you would do. I have two great examples for you. You meet someone and make arrangements to soon go out on a date. As the time approaches you are still in communication but you then get a vibe that this really isn’t going to happen. On your hunch you ask if everything is ok and are we still going to meet and the usual answer is “yes sure everything is ok”. You know what the next part is we didn’t meet as something came up. Basically this person knew all along they were not going to meet but led you along.

Example 2. You are in contact with another person and once again made arrangements to go out on a date. Through either a few emails and maybe a few phone calls once agin it is all going well then this person does the complete opposite of what the other person did and actually has the balls to say “no”. Well you are in shock and think this person is a nasty piece of work because they have the balls to say no to you.

Alas no one wins.

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1st Date Fears.

To be honest with you whoever denies the fact that they are not nervous when it comes to a first date is an out an out liar as everyone wants to give out a great impression on a first meeting.  I suppose you could go as far too say that date fears can last quite a while not just on the first meeting. They tend to go one one another have become comfortable with each others company.

I have always found that the best way to make my partner feel as comfortable as possible is to be literally as humorous as I can, not to the point of acting a fool but to make sure she has a great time. Understandably the whole point is to impress especially from the male point of view as the last thing you would want is for your date to think that you are a bore.

One great little tip is to go on a first date and make sure you are both in new territory meaning the restaurant is new for both of you or the bar  or wherever you go is new as this can bring on a lot more conversation.  Being on your “home turf” so to speak is not the best of scenarios for your partner so find somewhere new and exciting for you both to discover.

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