Hardly a day goes by when you don’t see a television talk show host mentioning the Sugar daddy dating phenomenon. The original and arguably the most popular dating site of the Sugar daddy theme is still going strong. Technology continues to re-invent itself and the applications that can be used to enhance one’s Internet experience continue to amaze me. I am seeing new smart phone apps available almost everyday that makes the online dating experience accessed from a phone almost as intimate as from your home PC. It makes me wonder where the online dating sites will go from here.
The reasons for joining an online dating site such as Sugardaddie.com are becoming abundantly clear. With an increasingly uncertain economy and the looming threats of government shutdowns, forced health care plans and rising costs of education many attractive women have turned to dating in order to be able to not only live an above average lifestyle but for survival as well. The majority of the men they date are more than happy to foot the bill for many of life’s necessities in return for the company of an attractive woman. The question then becomes is this type of dating moral or merely intelligent and attractive woman being much more selective in whom they choose to date?
As stated by many men and women who have gotten together through sites like Sugardaddie.com, is it not typical that people engaged in some type of relationship assist one another as they see fit? Don’t less affluent couples help one another through the more difficult times in their lives? Of course they do, its wrong that people be branded solely because of wealth or looks, after all they are doing the exact same thing that the average dating couple may do.
It’s just as easy to fall for a rich man or an attractive woman, as it is to fall for a person of more average looks and wealth. Sugardaddy themed websites merely make it much more efficient for those who choose to be more selective in their dating criteria to find exactly what they are looking for. There is no pretense on these websites, the members know precisely what they are looking for and any expectations are recognized.
Almost 12 years ago Sugardaddie.com recognized a need to create a venue for men and women who desire to live an above average lifestyle. They created a dating site in which they could meet, interact decide if their wants and needs were complimentary. Since then many sites have tried to emulate this one, but it’s always nice to dance with the girl that brought you!
In today’s society there are all types of relationships, and with the advent of online dating you would need a psychiatrist to understand them all. But the sheer number of people surfing the Internet brings about problems that have been around for ages, but are now amplified by the ease of entering an affair or love triangle online. Couples have struggled with these issues forever, and often seek advice from within that same dating community that causes Infidelity to begin with. But, if a Sugarbabe see’s no problem in dating a married man, it then falls to the wealthy man to decide if cheating is a road they want to go down. From personal experience, being a Sugardaddy has nothing to do with adultery; my own philosophy is if you are married, you should not be a Sugardaddy, unless you are single, divorced or separated. Dating many attractive women is a wonderful thing, but the personal accounts of such activities described by friends who engage in such affairs, leads me to believe that there is always a consequence for such actions and is more of a problem than the answer to what troubles you. In a quick question and answer session with a friend over coffee and a bagel, (I love my Sunday morning bagels!), my good friend suggested I was an expert at such information and began to use me as his resident advisor and personal support group.
I referred him to a blog post I had written many months ago about a group of friends who would constantly go down to Costa Rica to gamble and enjoy the local culture, and by culture I mean women. As they were boasting of their conquests, I happened to suggest that maybe their spouses also looked forward to their trips south of the border so they could indulge in similar activities. After about an hour of debating these issues back and forth we decided that I should create a series of videos allowing others to benefit from my wisdom or at least embark on a television career which would undoubtedly go over well among female fans. Some of my buddies here in South Florida are of Latino descent and come from many countries in South America, such as Columbia, Bolivia, Mexico and many others where the Latin people and the Latin culture may view the Sugardaddy lifestyle much differently than the way many Americans or other cultures do. So it comes down to a moral issue on what the individuals involved think and not what society thinks.
Again, I want to stress that my opinion, although count pretty much only for me are that to be a proper Sugardaddy and engage in the Sugardaddy relationship, you need to be unattached and unencumbered by a wife and family lifestyle. Your Sugarbabe is with you to realize her dreams of living a better than average or upscale lifestyle in addition to enjoying the companionship of a wealthy intelligent man. If you split time between two worlds, you do a disservice to both.
To be honest with you whoever denies the fact that they are not nervous when it comes to a first date is an out an out liar as everyone wants to give out a great impression on a first meeting. I suppose you could go as far too say that date fears can last quite a while not just on the first meeting. They tend to go one one another have become comfortable with each others company.
I have always found that the best way to make my partner feel as comfortable as possible is to be literally as humorous as I can, not to the point of acting a fool but to make sure she has a great time. Understandably the whole point is to impress especially from the male point of view as the last thing you would want is for your date to think that you are a bore.
One great little tip is to go on a first date and make sure you are both in new territory meaning the restaurant is new for both of you or the bar or wherever you go is new as this can bring on a lot more conversation. Being on your “home turf” so to speak is not the best of scenarios for your partner so find somewhere new and exciting for you both to discover.
You would be suprised that in this day and age of women with powerful jobs and female gogetters how many women out there still prefer the man being the bread winner. Im not saying that women want to sit at home and do nothing but many still prefer the man looking after them. This was how it used to be right?, before womens lib etc. I have no point of view from the womens side as it is entirely up to them how they feel about the subject. All I can say is I have absolutely no qualms being with a women that prefers the man to be the provider.
We all know at the best of times relationships can be difficult and need constant maintenance. Whoever said living together was easy should be held responsible for his actions as we all know it isnt easy. Now with my blog basically being written about a man who has had many a relationship with a age difference you are probably wondering how did I manage with the age difference when many people have a problem keeping a relationship going when they are the same age.
Well I did and it was probably easier than having a relationship with someone my age. Why you ask yourself?. Well let me first say that all females have respected the fact that Ive been successful in my life and Iam still successful both in business and in relationships.
One of the other factors I found that made this type of relationship easier was my life experiences. Maybe for her this could have taken away some of the mistakes we make in lifes lessons but it made life simpler in the long run as I had experienced may pitfalls that I could point out. This made for a lot of smooth sailing (which anyone would appreciate) in a relationship.
In today’s society many females feel comfortable in a relationship were there is a larger than normal age gap. I can totally understand it as well and thought Id write a few of my personal reasons why I feel a younger women has no qualms about being with a man older than herself.
1) Confidence and maturity play a big part in this factor. Many women are mentally older than their age and find being around youngsters a little on the drab side. They feel that they would like to do more than hang out at a Starbucks or the local Subway. With the opportunity to try things on a grander scale Im sure are very enticing and believe me they are more enticing as this information has come from the horses mouth.
2) Financial stability is another key factor in this type of relationship. Many women would like the opportunity to try different things without the concern of wondering if what she wants to do is “too expensive”.
There countless reasons for the mature man outwitting and winning in the dating game compared to a younger man.