Do you believe that we, as individuals, are attracted to certain types of other people? Are you someone that tends to gravitate toward single women that seem to have a common thread? For some wealthy men, it may mean you have a thing for blondes, for others maybe you tend to lean more toward high-powered single women in successful careers. No matter what your personal preference, it’s likely that you can relate to having a certain type of person that you look for in your mind, when exploring possible relationships.
For instance, I have a friend who seems to do nothing but date very attractive women. I brought this to his attention after having met his newest flame last weekend, asking him “are you really interested in these women for who they are or is it just what they look like?”. Having been in the same relationship for a little while now, I was curious and perhaps even admittedly living somewhat vicariously as I thought back to his recent string of over-the-top gorgeous single women. My buddy is not someone I would consider (but then again, what does one guy know about another guy in the way of looks) overly attractive; he has a great sense of humor, sometimes self-deprecating, which seems to appeal to attractive women and he is certainly a charismatic sort of guy, but how are all these super-model types drawn to him?.
After shrugging off the possibility that he could, in fact, be a shallow person drawn merely to aesthetics, he laughed and said “just lucky, I guess”. His inability to share specifics had me more curious in the human nature, wanting to get to the bottom of this. As his flavor of the month approached where we were reclined by the pool, I watched him lavish this gorgeous young blonde with attention, feeling the emergence of a cavity over the sickening sweetness of it all. Thinking back, I recalled how he’s always treated any attractive women he’s with, like gold. A-ha! I can only deduct that while single women in general like the attentions of a wealthy man, I’d imagine that it’s something about stroking the ego of attractive women that builds her up and makes her want more. So this is my very simple dating lesson of the day: If you want to be dating very attractive women, work on your people skills; the active listening, complimenting your date rather than contrasting, and plan on spending a lot of time over leisurely conversation showing you that you are 100% into her.
Since our parents time, dating has changed dramatically over the years. In the past a man would go to a dance or night club to meet a woman but now that we have the Internet that has all changed.
Today all a guy has to do is go online and join a quality dating site where he will find an abundance of single women who are all looking for relationships. This is so much more convenient than what our parents used to do and is so much less time consuming.
Before online dating became popular, it was uncommon for people to go out on a date if they’ve never actually met each other in person first. Now that we have Internet dating, it is very common for a man and a woman to plan a date together even though they’ve never actually met each other face to face.
Years ago, a gentleman would pick up a young lady at her house and maybe even be invited inside to meet her parents. We’ve all seen those old television shows where the girl’s father would have a talk with the girl’s boyfriend about where he plans on taking her and that she should be home no later than a certain time. Boy, have times changed. Today if a guy goes to pick up a young woman at her house, chances are she isn’t living with her parents and she probably has her own car!
In our parents time a guy was limited to dating women who lived in his area or town. If you lived in a small town it was very common for many single people to not only know of each other but to have dated one another as well. Thanks to Internet dating we now have the opportunity to meet men and women from all parts of the country including other countries.
Email has also played a role in changing how men meet and date single women. In the past if a guy met a girl in a bar and was interested in her, he’d most likely ask for her phone number. Today a single woman has the option to give out her cell phone number or email address. Some women feel much more comfortable giving out their email address than their phone number when meeting someone for the very first time. Email is also a way for two people to get to know each other before actually speaking on the phone.
In our parents time cell phones didn’t even exist which means the only way to call or contact someone was if they were at home or at work. Today it’s very convenient and common for a man to send a woman a text message anytime, anywhere saying that he was thinking about her or maybe simply calling her up just to say hi. Cell phones have made communication between men and women extremely convenient helping two people get to know one another better.
How did this whole sugar daddy thing started? Young women see celebrity couples and want to follow their favorite stars. There are so many examples of celebrity couples who’s age difference is 25 average. Let’s take Catherine Zeta-Jones and Michael Douglas. They have 25 years of difference and look great together! They even have two kids together. Woody Allen and Soon-Yi Previn have huge gap in between… 35 years! Can’t say they look as good as Douglas and Jones, but hey, as long as they are happy together…
So why wouldn’t any beautiful young woman want to look good as Jones! They do want some rich, respectable older man who loves them and to take care of them. They are great inspiration to all sugar daddies that are not celebrities but have a lot of money. There are many older men who are not bad looking for their age and still can afford a young cutie. Since most of the sugar daddy and sugar babe relationships I have mentioned are long term that might tell a lot about the woman. She is not only young and beautiful, but also smart and really devoted to her sugar daddy. Why would she stay with him for more than a month at least after marriage if not love? Yes, I can tell you are thinking about prenuptial agreement, but then why to have kids? It is very serious. I wish we would follow celebrities in all good stuff.
Shannon was a girl from a typical little town in the Midwest. She was a cheerleader in high school, dated various local guys, and from there went to a nearby junior college. Shannon, like many other girls that grew up in the heartland, felt that she was missing out on something in life, and decided she wanted something better. Shannon, however, had an advantage to most girls, in addition to being extremely intelligent, she was also exceptionally attractive. She then put a lot of time and effort into figuring out how to meet a millionaire and change her life for good.
Not all girls are capable of determining the best methods to find a rich sugardaddy or understand how to meet a millionaire, or even understanding the difference between the two. The definition of a sugardaddy in the true sense of the word may imply a slightly older gentleman willing to enter into a mutually beneficial relationship with younger attractive ladies for the purpose of showing them a more affluent lifestyle. Just because you are learning how to meet a millionaire or find a rich sugardaddy, does not mean that something real and perhaps more of a traditional relationship is not possible.
Shannon figured this out by understanding what it was that the very wealthy wanted, which in her reasoning was not merely an attractive and intelligent woman, but the perception of teaching someone about a world that in most cases would be far out of reach. There were a lot of good looking women searching for the same thing that she was, so she knew she had to stand out in the crowd. By studying about finance and the stock market, reading a newspaper everyday to keep current on world events, Shannon was able to use her good looks to get into that inner circle of the wealthy, but her intelligence and polish were the key to being able to stay in touch with the upscale crowd. You might even say that Shannon not only knew how to meet a millionaire, she also knew how to keep one.
The Sugar Daddy dating-relationship phenomenon has been exploding across the internet for the past few years and shows no signs of slowing down. Wealthy men and exceptionally attractive young ladies have become captivated with the notion of the Sugar daddy experience. Beautiful women are abundant as can be, as demonstrated by viewing television shows or glamour magazines. The beaches of Miami and Malibu are flooded with attractive and fit, single women who would jump at the opportunity to enter into a relationship, especially if those men could provide a better than average lifestyle for them. These affluent men are more than willing to assist these ladies in their quest for material comfort in return for companionship and entertainment.
Some might argue the point that these liaisons between the wealthy men and the beautiful younger women are nothing more illicit affairs. That the sugar daddy is taking advantage of the young woman by tempting her with exotic vacations, exquisite cuisine and fine gifts, but nothing can be further from the truth. This entire relationship must be a mutually beneficial one that is based on respect and understanding. There is a misconception that all sugar daddy relationships are between a well-to-do middle aged sugar daddy and extraordinary beautiful girl, this is not true. Many of these relationships begin as friendships between older wealthy men and average looking women who may need just a little help or a mentor in order to attain the standard of living that they desire in life.
It is very common for an older sugar daddy type to establish himself as father figure to young girls in need of an education into the ways of the world. Quite often these girls may have come from broken homes or from relationships in which they may have been mentally abused by someone closer to their own age. Young girls are often preyed upon by younger sugar daddy impersonators, who may not have the means to support themselves, let alone provide for their significant other in a relationship. This ‘bad boy’ sugar daddy copycat often leaves a young lady with a bitter taste towards any future relationships, and a kindly more secure older gentleman might be just the catalyst needed to propel this battered duckling into a beautiful swan.
It used to be said that beautiful girls had little, if any trouble getting the man they desired. It was also said that it was just as easy to fall in love with a rich man as a poor one. Having said this, lets delve a little deeper into the world of those beautiful girls who have chosen to enter into arrangements with older more experienced and wealthy men. These women are called sugar babies. Such women come from all walks of life and may themselves be of an affluent upbringing or possibly from more modest means. The connection between these beautiful girls may be a relatively simple one, they both want to live a better than average lifestyle and are searching for the instrument that will get them there, the ‘Sugar daddy’.
The role of the sugardaddy has been interpreted in a variety of ways over the centuries, from that of a nobleman becoming the mentor of younger woman of standing in early Europe, to that character brilliantly portrayed by the legendary Maurice Chevalier in the movie ‘Gigi’, where he explains to his nephew, played by Louis Jourdan, that marriage need not be the only choice. Beautiful girls have always had the ability to catch the eye of men, especially those men who have achieved much in their lives, possibly at the expense of an abridged version of their youth. To these men it seems like a small price to pay to support and educate these young ladies in return for the companionship of a charming and energetic beautiful girl.
The key to a successful relationship between the well-to-do gentleman and the beautiful girls he desires is that of luxury and kindness, for this must be more than a business arrangement; it must be based on mutual respect and a shared vision. Many in the media have portrayed the role of the Sugardaddy and his Sugar Babies as something similar to that of only a sexual liaison, but they fail to understand that this relationship goes far beyond the physical, and quite frequently may lead to a long term relationship and in some instances marriage. The arrangements between beautiful girls and successful older men has been going on for centuries and will continue to do so. The significant current state of these relationships is that they are now out of the shadows and can be enjoyed without the secrecy of the past.
Being an affluent person who loves a night on the town, how is one supposed to come up with new and exciting upscale restaurants to bring a date when someone has already visited all the upscale restaurants in town? Well, all is not lost as there are many alternatives to the same old dating grind of taking your date to a five star eatery! With some imagination and vision a night on the town can be transformed into a most memorable experience and a fine dining experience as well.
There are so many different types of upscale restaurants in any given city to go along with the incredible diversity of ethnic groups that make up the population. So why not enhance your evening by not only picking out a particular type of food for that evening, but make the entire date revolve around a particular ethnic group. For example, assuming the upscale restaurant you have reservations for is Italian cuisine, consider finding a museum specializing in Italian art. Perhaps the city has an Italian community with a market dedicated to foods or pastries of that country. It might also be fun to insist that all the clothes you wear that day be from designers of that country. By going the extra mile to give the date a specific theme, it is also showing a fun side and a willingness to try new things. It also allows you to revisit those restaurants more often by not engaging in the same old routines.
Considerably different from this method of visiting upscale restaurants, those that are among the more adventurous and humorous of the affluent dating crowd may try this oddball method of being different in partaking of your culinary delights. Have a chauffeured limousine pick you up. Do not forget to dress in the most exquisite attire such as a well fitting tuxedo for men and a designer gown for the lady. You then proceed to the fancy part of town and have the limo pull up in front of a popular McDonald’s or Burger King where you are sure to be the envy of all, or at least be the topic of some lively conversation.
Finding Upscale restaurants is easy to do, there are just so many to choose from and so many different kinds of food as well. It is not so much as which upscale restaurant to choose as when the eatery reaches Five Star status or is rated in the “best of” surveys one can be sure the food will be excellent. It is how a person can be different in the eyes of another that will make the evening one to remember or just another evening out.