Arrangements between beautiful girls and successful older men

It used to be said that beautiful girls had little, if any trouble getting the man they desired. It was also said that it was just as easy to fall in love with a rich man as a poor one. Having said this, lets delve a little deeper into the world of those beautiful girls who have chosen to enter into arrangements with older more experienced and wealthy men. These women are called sugar babies. Such women come from all walks of life and may themselves be of an affluent upbringing or possibly from more modest means. The connection between these beautiful girls may be a relatively simple one, they both want to live a better than average lifestyle and are searching for the instrument that will get them there, the ‘Sugar daddy’.

The role of the sugardaddy has been interpreted in a variety of ways over the centuries, from that of a nobleman becoming the mentor of younger woman of standing in early Europe, to that character brilliantly portrayed by the legendary Maurice Chevalier in the movie ‘Gigi’, where he explains to his nephew, played by Louis Jourdan, that marriage need not be the only choice. Beautiful girls have always had the ability to catch the eye of men, especially those men who have achieved much in their lives, possibly at the expense of an abridged version of their youth. To these men it seems like a small price to pay to support and educate these young ladies in return for the companionship of a charming and energetic beautiful girl.

The key to a successful relationship between the well-to-do gentleman and the beautiful girls he desires is that of luxury and kindness, for this must be more than a business arrangement; it must be based on mutual respect and a shared vision. Many in the media have portrayed the role of the Sugardaddy and his Sugar Babies as something similar to that of only a sexual liaison, but they fail to understand that this relationship goes far beyond the physical, and quite frequently may lead to a long term relationship and in some instances marriage. The arrangements between beautiful girls and successful older men has been going on for centuries and will continue to do so. The significant current state of these relationships is that they are now out of the shadows and can be enjoyed without the secrecy of the past.

Upscale restaurants for the upscale crowd

Being an affluent person who loves a night on the town, how is one supposed to come up with new and exciting upscale restaurants to bring a date when someone has already visited all the upscale restaurants in town? Well, all is not lost as there are many alternatives to the same old dating grind of taking your date to a five star eatery! With some imagination and vision a night on the town can be transformed into a most memorable experience and a fine dining experience as well.

There are so many different types of upscale restaurants in any given city to go along with the incredible diversity of ethnic groups that make up the population. So why not enhance your evening by not only picking out a particular type of food for that evening, but make the entire date revolve around a particular ethnic group. For example, assuming the upscale restaurant you have reservations for is Italian cuisine, consider finding a museum specializing in Italian art. Perhaps the city has an Italian community with a market dedicated to foods or pastries of that country. It might also be fun to insist that all the clothes you wear that day be from designers of that country. By going the extra mile to give the date a specific theme, it is also showing a fun side and a willingness to try new things. It also allows you to revisit those restaurants more often by not engaging in the same old routines.

Considerably different from this method of visiting upscale restaurants, those that are among the more adventurous and humorous of the affluent dating crowd may try this oddball method of being different in partaking of your culinary delights. Have a chauffeured limousine pick you up. Do not forget to dress in the most exquisite attire such as a well fitting tuxedo for men and a designer gown for the lady. You then proceed to the fancy part of town and have the limo pull up in front of a popular McDonald’s or Burger King where you are sure to be the envy of all, or at least be the topic of some lively conversation.

Finding Upscale restaurants is easy to do, there are just so many to choose from and so many different kinds of food as well. It is not so much as which upscale restaurant to choose as when the eatery reaches Five Star status or is rated in the “best of” surveys one can be sure the food will be excellent. It is how a person can be different in the eyes of another that will make the evening one to remember or just another evening out.

Things to do on a date with the Princess and the Tomboy

I am sure that every person that has ever asked an attractive woman out on date has come across this dilemma. Just when we think the difficult part is over, we then have to decide on what things to do on that date. Remember, she did say yes, so now it is up to you to make that date a most memorable experience as the competition for a beautiful woman is fierce. When thinking of things to do on a date the first thing a person must do is understand what type of woman he is going out with.

One important factor when deciding on things to do on a date is to think about the personality of the person who will be accompanying you. Is this person outgoing or more a reserved individual. In other words, would she be more comfortable if you reserved a private dinning room at a favorite restaurant or screaming her lungs out while white water rafting? Understanding her personality type will then make it easier to determine whether she is the outdoorsy type who would prefer the rafting trip or the princess who would favor being waited on in an elegant atmosphere.

If the princess is the flavor of the month than you will have to refine your possibilities of things to do on a date. The possibilities for this must include everything in style and elegance, perhaps a Chauffeured ride around town before settling in at a five start restaurant where you can celebrate the fact that you found each other with a bottle of Dom Perignon. The things to on a date with the princess must be first class at all times and although she may a be a bit high maintenance, the benefits of such a relationship quite often pay huge dividends when successful.

Things to do on a date with the Tomboy type woman can get a little tricky, as you are never quite sure what type of outdoor activity she really enjoys and what her skill level is at them. It would not bode well for you if you chartered an offshore fishing adventure only to find that she is prone to sea sickness or rock-climbing if she has a fear of heights. If you are not positive about her likes and abilities, try and engage her in a conversation in which you can get her to disclose what she enjoys and then find out all you can about it. It’s amazing how often when choosing things to do on a date with this type of woman how often the simplest things work best. Something as easy as a mountain bike ride along a scenic stretch of road or trail followed by a peaceful lunch at a lodge with a view can be the emotional equivalent the a seven course meal at a chic restaurant.

Thinking o things to do on a date with the Princess or the Tomboy is not difficult as long as one takes the time to get know her before making such important choices. If two people have met online and are merely going for a cup of coffee at a local bistro, this is the perfect time to ask those leading questions that will make the follow up meeting unforgettable!

Why Sugarbabes should watch the financial news.

A Sugarbabe’s knowledge of current events and daily changes in the stock market are more important to her bottom line than ever before. A Sugarbabe’s lifestyle is for the most part, dependant upon the financial success of her Sugardaddy and it is more than likely that his attitude will be affected by the ups and downs of his portfolio.

Let’s assume that an attractive young woman wants to ask her Sugardaddy for a new car or a trip to Las Vegas, her timing of posing this question to him is crucial if she wants to have him respond positively. Ask him one day when he has possibly lost a small fortune because a stock he has a large position in has fallen dramatically, and the odds are pretty good that the only thing she will be getting is an eviction notice.

If this same attractive woman, watches the stock market and pays special attention to those stocks and investments that her Sugardaddy is heavily invested, she can pose this same question to him and he may comply happily. It’s not hard to watch the evening news or take a peek on the Internet to find this important information and it may also show your Sugardaddy that you take an interest in his work and are trying to learn for you own future. Nothing makes a mentor happier than seeing his protégé utilizing the tools he has bestowed upon her. You may even find yourself the recipient of a small stock market account of your own to work with.

It’s not enough to merely be “arm candy” any longer. The Sugarbabe of today must be reasonable educated, slightly refined and above all have enough common sense not to bit the hand that feeds her. Asking for extravagant gifts when your benefactor’s net worth has just taken a hit is the kiss of death. Be patient, listen, and learn to read the stock market and other financial barometers, and you will not only find yourself gaining popularity among both your Sugardaddy and his inner circle, but you will more than likely be dressed and bejeweled in new and elegant designs and riding the financial trends like a seasoned wall street guru!

Don’t hate the player, hate the game.

We are so conditioned to expect certain things when we engage in the fine art of dating that we tend to forget what is truly important. The first thing people ask when you tell them that you are dating someone new is what do they do for living or what kind of car do they drive? Say the wrong answer to these questions and you will be met with a very suspect look. Instead shouldn’t those that care about us be more interested in what kind of person he or she is? Shouldn’t sense of humor and integrity triumph over bank accounts and material possessions? The answer to this in today’s society is a resounding no.

This is why in the world online dating and Internet personals I say “don’t hate the player, hate the game”, as basically you are playing a game and competing against the hordes of other singles and not-so-singles that inhabit the online dating world. Each and every time you venture onto an online dating site, you are first attracted by a picture, which is very normal as looks are the initial factor that will cause a person to look further and perhaps feel confident enough to make that all important contact.

But what happens, when after several conversations, a string of emails and online messaging you finally decide to meet for a face to face encounter at the local starbucks and that well-dressed person in the profile picture on that obscure online dating site pulls up in a beat up old car and is dressed like the customers of a nearby soup kitchen. It may still be the same person that enchanted you with his or her humor, and that great smile may still be there, but now the game has changed. You now have to decide, whether the personality of this person is enough to overcome the lack of wealth or substance.

The online dating game as well as dating in general has certain rules, and with only occasional exceptions, it is fairly certain that 4’s belong with 4’s, 7’s belong with 7’s and 10’s belong with….well…ME! But also remember this, that if you have someone that has a personality that you adore and compliments your own, there is always that chance that financial circumstances may change and you could be a part of that change, or you may choose to wait for that person with the Mercedes and the house in the Hamptons, to sweep you off your feet. That person may also be everything you have dreamed of, or just your ticket to a more affluent lifestyle. The rules to this game of courtship have been ingrained in our subconscious over generations, so this is why I say “don’t hate the player, hate the game.”

Hugh Hefner’s women

A very common question asked by the millions of Hugh Hefner fans, both men and women has always been, who has the Playboy founder and original Sugardaddy been linked to over the years. The interesting fact is that if you are a frequent visitor to the many blog sites found on the Internet discussing this topic, there is a very high probability that you were not even born when this man began his ascension to the throne of the sexual revolution.

Naming all the gorgeous women that have been romantically linked to Hugh Hefner over the years could take days to research and analyze so for the purpose of time we will just gloss over some of my favorites.

Not every girl that Hugh Hefner has dated has been a Playboy Playmate of the month, Barbi Benton, (I had such a crush on her when I was young!), did however appear in the magazine on several occasions. Barbi Benton met Hugh Hefner in 1968, at the time he was 42 and she was 18 and this romance lasted approximately eight years.

Lillian Müller appeared as the Playmate of the Month in August 1975, and became Playmate of the Year in 1976. Marilyn Cole also romantically associated with Hugh Hefner was playmate of the month for January 1972 as well as Playmate of the year for 1973. Can we see a pattern emerging here? It would seem that Mr. Hugh Hefner was running his own version of the baseball minor league system and then bringing them up to play for the big team!

We all know of Shannon Tweed, currently, happily not-married to Gene Simmons of KISS fame. Shannon was chosen as Playmate of the year for November 1981 and playmate of the year for 1982. She dated Hugh Hefner from 1981 to 1983.

Hugh Hefner was actually married to Kimberly Conrad playmate of the month for January 1988 and Playmate of the year for 1989. Although the marriage ended after 10 years, the two are still legally married and have two children together.

There have been many, many women in between those we have chosen to discuss as well as “The Girls Next Door” showcasing the three blonde beauties that have lived in the Playboy mansion the past few years, Holly Madison, Bridget Marquardt and Kendra Wilkenson. The relationship with these women and Hugh Hefner has subsequently ended but the Sugardaddy Dating endeavors of this 83 year old man are far from over.

Hugh Hefner is currently dating Karissa and Kristina Shannon, identical twin models who are rumored to be 2009’s Miss July and Miss August in a special summer issue of Playboy. Some of us dream it, and some of us live it!

Oh Mama

I’m not sure as to whether or not this is a genetic trait that all women possess, or merely something that occurs in the single women that I tend to meet, but I have noticed that they all seem to want to mother me. Originally I had thought that because of my extreme adventure lifestyle, and the fact that I usually came home broken or battered in some fashion that it was just a nice gesture of concern. Nope, its more than that. It seems that even if I just get a splinter or a scratch, the woman I am with will roll out the bandages, put me in my recliner, hand me the remote control and repeatedly kiss my boo boo.

This mothering instinct is a fine thing, but it can sometimes get overdone. If I mention I am inured, even a woman who has never met me face to face feels the need to nurse me back to health, by sending me home remedies or calling a local deli and having chicken soup sent to my residence. I should take the time to mention that I live within a guard gated estate, so my security is assured. I am not the handsomest man in the world, so I am not concerned that they do this out of pure lust, nor am I the ugliest, as I have not recently been seen ringing bell in a church shouting “sanctuary” at the top of my lungs. It just seems that it is genetically coded for the female of the species to do this. I have learned, however that I can work this human condition to my advantage. My Sugar baby is coming over to night and, I’m trying my best to get a groin injury before she arrives.

Friends with benefits

Have you ever been involved in some sort of relationship or romance and not quite known how to define it? The Sugardaddy is not merely hooking up for the evening with a stranger, yet not really more than friends who enjoy occasionally sleeping together. This is the kind of sex in which one of the couple will more than likely find some excuse not to spend the night and slips out the door, in the wee hours of the morning. These types of relationships are commonly called friends with benefits. As a Sugardaddy, I have on many occasions invited a woman, who was a good friend of mine, to travel with me on a business trip to a nice location. I may have had a semi girlfriend at the time or she, a boyfriend, and although there may have been a bit of jealousy by the significant other, it was rare that my girlfriend would volunteer to assist me with my networking or jobs unless the destination was overseas or international travel. The friends with benefits relationship is first and foremost as a friend, a woman, who happens to have some quality or sexuality about her that makes you want to enjoy more than a bit of social conversation and dinner.

Sometimes those who are mixed up in friends with benefits type relationship are thought of as ‘the player’, that kind of individual who does not want a stable relationship or girlfriend. The player is great with sharing advice with others on how to deal with the female population, and can burn up the social networking and message boards with overstated accounts of his conquests, but the true friends with benefits relationships are usually just that, sex between consenting good friends. If an individual is lucky enough to be in such a quasi-romance, while not currently in a monogamous relationship, remember that because you sleep with someone, the Sugardaddy is not necessarily in a dating relationship with them, but you do owe them your respect and honesty. Friends with benefits occasionally turn into something more so its important to build trust while sharing this adventure.

A Sugardaddy is not the player. He is more of an instructor, teaching undergraduates in the science of building a more affluent lifestyle. He is neither a video star nor an advice columnist. He is first and foremost a friend, and on occasion, friends with benefits!.

Dating a married man

In today’s society there are all types of relationships, and with the advent of online dating you would need a psychiatrist to understand them all. But the sheer number of people surfing the Internet brings about problems that have been around for ages, but are now amplified by the ease of entering an affair or love triangle online. Couples have struggled with these issues forever, and often seek advice from within that same dating community that causes Infidelity to begin with. But, if a Sugarbabe see’s no problem in dating a married man, it then falls to the wealthy man to decide if cheating is a road they want to go down. From personal experience, being a Sugardaddy has nothing to do with adultery; my own philosophy is if you are married, you should not be a Sugardaddy, unless you are single, divorced or separated. Dating many attractive women is a wonderful thing, but the personal accounts of such activities described by friends who engage in such affairs, leads me to believe that there is always a consequence for such actions and is more of a problem than the answer to what troubles you. In a quick question and answer session with a friend over coffee and a bagel, (I love my Sunday morning bagels!), my good friend suggested I was an expert at such information and began to use me as his resident advisor and personal support group.

I referred him to a blog post I had written many months ago about a group of friends who would constantly go down to Costa Rica to gamble and enjoy the local culture, and by culture I mean women. As they were boasting of their conquests, I happened to suggest that maybe their spouses also looked forward to their trips south of the border so they could indulge in similar activities. After about an hour of debating these issues back and forth we decided that I should create a series of videos allowing others to benefit from my wisdom or at least embark on a television career which would undoubtedly go over well among female fans. Some of my buddies here in South Florida are of Latino descent and come from many countries in South America, such as Columbia, Bolivia, Mexico and many others where the Latin people and the Latin culture may view the Sugardaddy lifestyle much differently than the way many Americans or other cultures do. So it comes down to a moral issue on what the individuals involved think and not what society thinks.

Again, I want to stress that my opinion, although count pretty much only for me are that to be a proper Sugardaddy and engage in the Sugardaddy relationship, you need to be unattached and unencumbered by a wife and family lifestyle. Your Sugarbabe is with you to realize her dreams of living a better than average or upscale lifestyle in addition to enjoying the companionship of a wealthy intelligent man. If you split time between two worlds, you do a disservice to both.

A Sugardaddy in Key West

A Sugardaddy in Key Weird

We spend so much time telling you all the posh hotspots that you can take your Sugarbabe to, but the truth is, you don’t have to travel half way across the world to have a great time with an attractive woman by your side. Depending upon where you live, you may be able to find places that can blow your socks off and show that you are more than a rich man showing off in order to get a hottie in the sack! The perfect combination of romantic settings and uniqueness will often transform a moderately decent looking Sugardaddy into the next George Clooney. The important thing to know is that even if you travel to places that are not the grand and swanky destinations Such as South Beach or Las Vegas there are still ways and venues that display your affinity for an upscale lifestyle and that you truly deserve the moniker of Sugardaddy.

One of my favorite local get-a-ways, even though I live in the vicinity of South Beach in Miami, is to take a weekend with my favorite Sugarbabe and head south. I’m talking 90 miles from Cuba south, to the center of strange and exotic behavior, Key West! The Florida Keys are a string of little Islands that all have their own flavor and uniqueness, such as Islamorada, a quaint little drinking village with a serious fishing problem. The road trip to Key West is a lot of fun although there is a ferry that can take you from Key Biscayne to Key Weird in the same 3-4 hours that it takes to drive, but with cocktails and Television! Once on the Island depending on yours and your sugarbabes needs you may find any number of charming bed and breakfasts to a five star luxury hotel such as the La Concha. Your evenings can be as simple as visiting the little hole in the wall bars once frequented by the likes of Ernest Hemingway and Jimmy Buffett. If the wild side takes hold of you and you want to do a little showing off there is always the Bull & Whistle Stop bar which boasts live music downstairs and a clothing optional bar on the third floor.

No matter what state you live in, there are always some great places that are a just a bit off the beaten path and worth the visit. If you are a wealthy man, with an incredibly attractive Sugarbabe, you may just find that the little extra that you can spend than the average visitor to these places, will make you look and feel like the Sugardaddy you are, and allow your Sugarbabe to see a side of you that is a bit more carefree and exotic.